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Should my Woman Have Male Besties?

 She confides in him even about the matters you discuss as a couple. They have known each other for years and don't see any problems with their friendship. Are there any red flags to this habit? Should your woman have a male best friend?  Who is this male bestie? This is the first question that needs an answer. The famous male bestie refers to a male who is a good friend to your woman. In some cases, their friendship extends through many years. They may share many things and consult each other on various sensitive issues. In some parts of the world, such a person is almost like her brother. In other places, it is an open-ended affair handled differently.  Are there any red flags to male besties Some people manage maintain such ties even after they get married to others. The mutual respect displayed by such is noteworthy. But this is only a small fraction. The huge majority hide in the friend zone while either entertaining an affair or hoping for one. It is usually a time ...

How To manage a Talkative Partner

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 It's always difficult to handle a partner who is always talking. Sometimes you may have things to share with them, but they have no room for listening and giving you a chance. Below are some suggestions you may use when dealing with such a partner.  Give them attention The basic way to deal with them, is to respect them by giving them attention as they speak. This is never an easy task. By listening, you also show them respect and create room for them to give you the same attention when it's your turn.  Never cut them off abruptly You already know your partner so well. It is not like you don't expect them to talk too much. Allow them to talk, but when you need to stop them, do it gently and lovingly.  Set and respect boundaries together  There is always going to be a time when you need some quiet time while they need to continue talking. You will only strike a balance if you can work together to let them know when you need some quiet time. In some cases, you ma...