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My Woman Never Laughs At My Jokes - why?

Whenever you crack a joke your woman either pretends to be smiling or laughs because others seem to be laughing. Otherwise, she never laughs at your jokes however funny others might find them. Why? What can you do to correct the situation? Why she never laughs at your jokes There are many reasons that cause a woman not to laugh at the jokes of her man. Some of the commonest reasons might include the following; Awkward sense of humor: Your jokes might be embarrassing for her taste and she is not sure yet how to tell you. Perhaps she finds them too queer or outrageous - to some extent, even childish. Wrong timing: It might be that you always crack your jokes when she is not in the mood for jokes. Serious issues unresolved: Even if you crack the best jokes ever, your woman won't find them funny if there are unresolved issues. Your jokes aren't good enough: You woman is just in the category of people who don't find your jokes funny. To her, they are dry and perha...

Serious Wedding Mistakes You Need To Avoid

When planning a wedding, there are many factors you have to deal with. Most of the wedding complications that cause embarrassment can be avoided during planning. There are many mistakes to avoid when planning a wedding so that everything else can work out smoothly. The anxiety, pressure, and emotions you have to handle are all part of the burden you have to deal with in the process. But below are some common regrettable mistakes common during wedding parties and even wedding ceremonies.  Common mistakes made during weddings These mistakes are wide and they are not just centered on the wedding day. The capture mistakes that should have been avoided when planning for the wedding.  Extravagant expenditure: Some couples spent to impress or show off in style. There is nothing wrong with making the best of that day. But many fail to stick to their financial boundaries and incur heavy debt or even end up in a debt trap. Inviting multitudes of guests: The pressure to invite as many...

Start Preparing For a Successful Wedding Ceremony?

Wedding ceremonies can be quite involving to organize. The headache begins right after she says 'yes' to the proposal. This planning process can be made a lot easier and happier if some factors are handled with care right from the start. Do not postpone preparations - Start Now! Unfortunately, with wedding preparations, there is no too much time ahead. Even up to the day you are getting married there will still be a list of things to do. Therefore, it is best to start preparing right now.  Make a checklist for the two of you right away and constantly update it. What type of wedding do you need? The starting point should be an agreement of the kind of wedding you want as a couple and the expectations that your families have, even before you specify a date. Then, you can strike a balance. But never start these preparations with the view of impressing someone. You will have a taste of daydreaming that leads to real nightmares!   What do you w...

Can I Apologise with a Gift?

Samuel came home drunk and battered his wife when she delayed serving his meal. The following morning, she never talked to him as he left for work, but when he came back from work, he gave her a bunch of flowers which she threw in his face. The main question is, can you apologize with the presentation of a fitting gift? Why apologize? Upon looking at some factors that lead to apologies, it is very clear that deep emotions are involved. An apology comes in to mend an emotional wound that has been caused, and thus even the remedy should be related to that. If you insulted someone and then you bring the best packed lunch for them, what message are you sending? It is like congratulating them for receiving the insults! That is why you need to focus on the reason behind your apology. It is meant to resolve emotional matters, not to supplement some material cravings! When should A gift be presented? The right time to present your gift is monitored by the circumstances surro...

Is it Always Wrong to have Sex Before Marriage?

Wendy was in a relationship when her boyfriend started demanding for sex persistently. Her mother had told her never to open up to any man before marriage. But when she consulted her friends, they were even shocked that she was still a virgin at 21 and they encouraged her to go ahead. We will come back to the story later. Modern society has come to accept that when two people truly love each other, sex is acceptable even before getting married. Who is telling the truth? Your friends and certain elders will tell you that you can only show your man how much you love him by sleeping with him. But people who have brought you up - mum and dad - will be of the view that you wait for your marriage mate. Who is telling the truth? Firstly, you may need to ask it this way, "Whose word would you trust between your parents' and friends'?" Our friends are filled with the youthful passion and they are too inexperienced to be trusted. In fact, the majority of them will tell you t...

Have You Discovered what Makes your Lover Happy?

One man's meat can be another man's poison just as one woman's rose can be another woman's garbage. People differ by their tastes and it is not possible to expect your spouse to like what someone else does. Never work on assumptions, get to know your best friend closely. Unmistakable signs to look out for When your spouse or lover speaks, listen and focus on how they react to some products and ideas. If, for instance, you were to buy your woman the Latest Iphone on the market, how would she feel? To get the answer, you can ask her informally and see how she responds. On the other hand, if you were to buy your man a plain Long Sleeved Shirt Or Sunglasses, how would he respond? Perhaps you already have the answer if you have tried this in the past. Look at the kind of items your spouse likes buying or tries to buy many times. In some cases, you may not need a gift to make your lover happy. You could think of helping your lover to discover the advantages of online mark...

How do You Intend to Spend 2013 as a couple?

In the year 2012 you noticed so many things that went wrong. These have even overshadowed the best moments you had as you carry out your review. Many questions still linger in your mind about the objectives you set at the beginning of 2012 as a couple. Perhaps you wanted to Reduce Your Weight drastically, but nothing worked. Maybe you just wanted to prepare a Surprise package for your parents , spouse, or best friends? Now that 2013  is just about to start, how do you intend to spend it as a couple? The best New year resolutions for couples One of the best goals you can set for 2013 is to show love to people who truly matter in your life - starting with your parents and kids. This naturally makes it easy to achieve a variety of objectives because no man is an island. Remember some of the most difficult times you have had with your spouse or fiance during the year 2012. Do not just focus on how heartbroken you have been as a result of such events. Try to focus on the lessons yo...