Real Relationship Issues Today

First, it needs to be made very clear that dowry is not money paid in order for a woman to be sold from her parents to her husband. No! At the same time, it is not a financial transaction that is priced according to the value of the commodity on sale. Otherwise, if you think you paid K50,000,000 ($10,000) as dowry, sorry, that is not even enough to buy certain designs of cars! The amount paid as dowry, in whatever form, is a minute or negligible fraction of what the bride is worth. Therefore, the act  of paying dowry is a gesture of seeking authorization from the bride's parents to approve the marriage. Who should have a say in it? Traditions around the globe are diverse. But, basically, the paying of dowry or bride price signifies the start of a new family. Therefore, the people getting married should have a say, in one way or another, on the dowry. This makes the negotiating process easier, and convenient. You can do this by ensuring that yo...

  When you were dating she used to cling on you and hug you whenever you met. After you got married she even used to kiss you passionately. But now you can't remember the last time she kissed you. When you try to hug her, she shrugs you off. What is the problem? How can you normalize matters? Where have you gone wrong? Firstly, she can behave like that if there are serious problems between you. Do you always quarrel and fight? Or is there some issue that causes constant fights? The psychological aspect is very important as it also makes it easy for you to correct your matters. If the psychological part is not sorted out, then your very sight is going to be disgusting. But what if such issues are not there and she has even confessed? Women normally speak either by their actions or some words that might be indicative of what they are thinking. In fact the body language normally has the best message for you. Listen to her when she complains about you - esp...

Breaking up is associated with deep pain and heartbreaks. Most people find it difficult to move on after a break up. What makes it difficult to move on? Is revenge the best solution? How can you start a new life after a breakup? Why is It So Hard to Move On? You dated this person for a long time and, naturally, you had serious future plans together. But most importantly, you opened your heart and came to fall in love with this person. Even though you decided to break up, your deep emotions are still vested in this person. And moving on is not going to be easy, but it must be done because it is the only option left. Whenever you feel lonely, the fond memories of the nice times you spent together replay in your mind. Sometimes, you blame yourself for the breakup with the view that if you had done things differently, the story could be different by now. In short, if you share rich memories, moving on is not an easy undertaking.  It could be that your former lover - you...