Real Relationship Issues Today

 Rebound relationships start shortly after someone goes through a break up. The heartbroken one looks for a shoulder to cry on with the view of alleviating the pain. Mostly such relationships involve someone using another person for personal gain. Another Heartbreak in the Making  Rebound relationships can be compared to the use of a soothing mechanism like a block of ice when you are burnt or a bandage when you are injured. When the pain goes away, you have to throw away that bandage and move on. Similarly, such relationships come to an end when the heartbroken partner heals completely or has made steady progress in the healing process. In addition, the choice of a partner is not based on true love, it is based on the anguish of disappointment from the previous relationship. The mind attempts to prove that this person is still lovable and can do better than was portrayed by the previous heart breaker. In all this, you can notice that another heartbre...

You have met someone who is very hard working, mature, and perhaps with a lot of wealth and intelligence. The only problem is that you are not romantically attracted to this person. Even the fact that you get along well has merely left you regarding this person as a sibling friend. What role does romantic attraction play in a marriage? What would happen if you married this person? What if you are already married to such a person? The role played by romantic attraction  In any happy marriage, intimacy is enjoyed, and it needs to be there. But the intimacy that is found here is fueled by romantic feelings and the attraction that comes with it. In the end, a husband feels a special or unique attachment to his wife because of the attraction he has towards her and the same applies to the wife.  This intimacy is not shared among mere friends or relatives. A husband feels a special  or unique attachment to his wife  because of the attraction he has towar...

Friends can make us or break us. In fact they can be made in minutes but keeping them requires serious, and consistent effort. Sometimes, we go through problems because we chose wrong friends, and we ended up associating with bad groups. However, since not every good person can be your friend, then who makes a true friend?         Who makes a true friend? A true friend should be someone who knows you better than many other people and can easily stand up for you when times are rough. Such a person should have the following qualities: Should trust you reasonably: This person should know you enough to have a reasonable amount of trust in you. No fanaticism involved. An auxiliary consultant: A true friend should be a consultant in some situations. This person should provide genuine guidance when needed. A good listener: Sometimes this person should just listen as you pour your heart and express your feelings. This usually applies usually when the problem ...

During courtship, many couples forget to discuss fully the number of children they wish to have, and when such children should be born. This means that children are born either accidentally, or spontaneously. Perhaps that is the reason why even buying fitting gifts usually becomes a challenge for many parents. When do you need to discuss matters related to kids and why? The Ideal Number of Children During courtship, you need to discuss the ideal number of kids that fits your circumstances. No one will come and tell you to have one kid, or two kids unless it is enshrined in the laws of your state or the traditions and practices of your land. You do not need to wait until you get married to discussion this matter with your partner. Naturally you need to discuss the future of the kids and your best aspirations. Then, this will remind you about your responsibility of making sure that they get a decent life you can afford. If you notice too many...

Even if you spend huge sums of money trying to repair the cracked walls and leaking roof, if the foundation is poor, your building can eventually collapse. Similarly, a relationship that is based on a weak foundation can eventually go down. More should be invested in the foundation of a relationship , not just gifts, so that it can be able to handle the shock-waves of life's anxieties, challenges, and problems. What constitutes a bad foundation? A bad foundation can be seen in the way you meet your spouse and how well you come to know each other in the long run. In any relationship foundation techniques  and scenarios also matter. If you have a habit of starting relationships by the roadside, there are huge chances that you can end up with wrong partners that are merely after what you can offer. Apart from that, if a relationship becomes intimate at a wrong time, you can easily lose focus and objectivity. This may result in making wrong choices. Therefor...

When they got married, Susan loved her husband so much that they used to enjoy having sex almost every night. Three months later, she started looking for every excuse to deny him sex. It was like an automobile in need of new spares and a new start. Common reasons behind wives denying husbands sex This problem is not unique to certain parts of the world. It is everywhere, the only difference is that, in some areas it is more prevalent. Some of the commonest reasons for this behavior include;    Unresolved issues at home: Most women who deny their husbands sex complain about the many problems that remain unresolved in their marriage. Poor or no communication: Instead of having a free flow of healthy and loving communication, most partners keep serious matters to themselves and end up invoking quarrels instead of communicating. Punishing the husband: Some women use sex denying husbands complain about as a weapon to punish them for the mistakes and wro...

Most women complain that almost all men cheat on their spouses. Could it be said that some have taken advantage of the affordability managed websites offering freely services to support their affairs? How do men start cheating on their spouses? What are some supporting factors that urge them on? Why do they cheat? Should we blame technology? At the moment, technology has been used even in a negative way to support illicit affairs around the world. The developers of such products aim at supporting the creation of Websites that promote human dignity and chastity. This can even be seen in the way domain names are offered. But somewhere along the line, the desire for more profit leaves technology the real culprit for supporting men cheating on their spouses. The sophisticated nature of recent developments in technology can thus be blamed partly.  How do men start cheating? Men who cheat on their spouses for a prolonged period do not merely start by some whim. So...