The Importance Of The Foundation Of A Relationship

Even if you spend huge sums of money trying to repair the cracked walls and leaking roof, if the foundation is poor, your building can eventually collapse. Similarly, a relationship that is based on a weak foundation can eventually go down. More should be invested in the foundation of a relationship, not just gifts, so that it can be able to handle the shock-waves of life's anxieties, challenges, and problems.

What constitutes a bad foundation?
A bad foundation can be seen in the way you meet your spouse and how well you come to know each other in the long run. In any relationship foundation techniques and scenarios also matter. If you have a habit of starting relationships by the roadside, there are huge chances that you can end up with wrong partners that are merely after what you can offer. Apart from that, if a relationship becomes intimate at a wrong time, you can easily lose focus and objectivity. This may result in making wrong choices. Therefore a bad foundation of a relationship results in heartbreaks, embarrassing disappointments and other fatal consequences.

Make A Solid Foundation  For Your Relationship
As long as you are interested in a resounding future with the love of your life, making a solid foundation is a must. Here are some tips that can help you secure your foundation.
  • Never rush for sex: There is no legal, psychological or logical guarantee that sleeping with someone is the sure way to end up getting married. In your foundation, bank on respect and wait till you are married.
  • Mind Where You met them: If you meet your partner in a decent place, it is obvious that the partner might have some trust. Avoid partners you meet in social locales like bars and pubs if you have serious intentions. 
  • Get Facts About Your Partner: Even before you get involved with this person, find out key leading facts that would provide a basis for going ahead. If you are not satisfied, you can easily end it at this point.
  • Know Each Other Adequately: Remember that even online projects become valuable when client and contractor know each other well. Similarly, take your time to understand your partner. Never rush until you are sure.
  • Invest In love And respect: You need to love and respect each other. Love that is not accompanied with respect constitutes a shaky foundation that is very unpredictable and unreliable. Love needs the pillar of respect if it is to be sustained.
  • Develop the roots of trust: The depth of your foundation can also be tested by the amount of trust you develop for each other. This is like ensuring that you reinforce your love with the best foundation material that can do a good job. 
What if your foundation was poor, but you have been married for years, is your situation pathetic? The next article will look at that.

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