Serious Wedding Mistakes You Need To Avoid


When planning a wedding, there are many factors you have to deal with. Most of the wedding complications that cause embarrassment can be avoided during planning. There are many mistakes to avoid when planning a wedding so that everything else can work out smoothly. The anxiety, pressure, and emotions you have to handle are all part of the burden you have to deal with in the process. But below are some common regrettable mistakes common during wedding parties and even wedding ceremonies. 

Common mistakes made during weddings
These mistakes are wide and they are not just centered on the wedding day. The capture mistakes that should have been avoided when planning for the wedding. 
  • Extravagant expenditure: Some couples spent to impress or show off in style. There is nothing wrong with making the best of that day. But many fail to stick to their financial boundaries and incur heavy debt or even end up in a debt trap.
  • Inviting multitudes of guests: The pressure to invite as many people as possible forces some couples to end up with too many invitees. These also attract a good number of gate-crushers. In the end, the budget becomes too big to manage within a couple's capacity.
  • Last minute changes: Sometimes, a couple just decides to change the venue or the setup of the wedding at the very last minute. This eventually causes confusion and serious problems to the committee handling the wedding or the wedding planner hired. Such can be be avoided when planning for the wedding.
  • Inviting wrong people: When the wrong people are invited, you can easily turn your wedding memories into sour memories of the soul or an embarrassing ordeal for the two of you.
  • Making assumptions: It is very common for some couples to assume that on their wedding day, it will not rain, though their date is in summer, and the day is six months away. Decisions should never be based on immaterial assumptions. Stick to proven facts and add some allowance of unexpected shockers.
  • Failure to supervise your committee: Even if you do not have an official committee in place, whoever is assisting you to ran errands or do small tasks can be considered to be a member of your informal committee. If you don't give clear and timely instructions to such people, then you are headed for trouble.
  • Bad time keeping: Bad time keeping leads to losing important guests who end up leaving for other pressing matters. In some cases, important parts of a program can easily be omitted or the guests may end up being frustrated after being kept for too long. 
  • Inadequate or poor planning: A badly planned wedding easily turns that joyous occasion into some laughing stock or joke of the year! The whole program is jumbled and things are done in a discourteous manner not befitting such an occasion. The mistakes to avoid during planning should be confronted with an open mind.
How can you avoid wedding mistakes
Firstly, it is important to keep the lines of communication with your partner, and committee, open. You need to agree about what you are doing at every stage. This means that you will agree on who should make up your committee or if you need a full time wedding planner. Such people should follow your example of serious time keeping and timely communication. As you sit together to plan, don't hide or misrepresent your financial status. Accept what you can manage and do not spend like the wedding day will be the end of everything. You have your entire lives fully packed ahead of you.

A wedding has never been an emergency and even yours will never be one unless you want to assume it that way. Therefore, never feel compelled to impress some people by doing it at a wrong time with expenses beyond your means. Give yourselves enough time to plan adequately so that only what you want, as a couple, will take place on that day. Others will be there to support, but the entire occasion rests on the bride and groom.  
 

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