How To manage a Talkative Partner

 It's always difficult to handle a partner who is always talking. Sometimes you may have things to share with them, but they have no room for listening and giving you a chance. Below are some suggestions you may use when dealing with such a partner. 

Give them attention

The basic way to deal with them, is to respect them by giving them attention as they speak. This is never an easy task. By listening, you also show them respect and create room for them to give you the same attention when it's your turn. 

Never cut them off abruptly

You already know your partner so well. It is not like you don't expect them to talk too much. Allow them to talk, but when you need to stop them, do it gently and lovingly. 

Set and respect boundaries together 

There is always going to be a time when you need some quiet time while they need to continue talking. You will only strike a balance if you can work together to let them know when you need some quiet time. In some cases, you may also need to signal to them when it is time for them to give you some space. 

Tactfully change the topic when necessary 

When your partner has already started talking excessively, you can use another method. Respectfully, and tactfully change the topic. This should be one that will involve both of you. 

Call for professional help

Despite your good intentions, you may still not see the progress you need in some cases. If you have done all you can for too long, it is time to invite professionals in. You can go for counseling as a couple or ask a therapist to provide some guidance. 

Whatever you decide to do, always remember that the best solution lies in your support. All the above tips can still be helpful, but in some cases, this could be their nature. This is where you may need to find a way of accommodating and tolerating them in love.