Who Makes A True Friend?

Friends can make us or break us. In fact they can be made in minutes but keeping them requires serious, and consistent effort. Sometimes, we go through problems because we chose wrong friends, and we ended up associating with bad groups. However, since not every good person can be your friend, then who makes a true friend?

        Who makes a true friend?
A true friend should be someone who knows you better than many other people and can easily stand up for you when times are rough. Such a person should have the following qualities:
  1. Should trust you reasonably: This person should know you enough to have a reasonable amount of trust in you. No fanaticism involved.
  2. An auxiliary consultant: A true friend should be a consultant in some situations. This person should provide genuine guidance when needed.
  3. A good listener: Sometimes this person should just listen as you pour your heart and express your feelings. This usually applies usually when the problem is too complex. 
  4. An empathetic companion: This person should share your pain when times are rough. He is going to be moved to take any acceptable action to bail you out of trouble.
  5. Genuine care for you: This person will act to help you genuinely. Not for the sake of being seen by others. They may even prefer to stand by your side without being noticed if situations demand so.
  6. Understand you better: A genuine friend, should understand you better than other people. When the world calls you names, this person will call you a friend and help pronounce your reputation correctly.
  7. Share your happy and sad moments: A friend true and selfless in nature will be there when you are sad and when you are rejoicing. This once will stick to you closer than a brother when you need them.     
What about a life partner?
A life partner should naturally be of the opposite gender and should also have the qualities of a good friend and a loving companion. But before marrying this person, you need to be sure that in addition to the above qualities, that person should also be romantically attracted to you as much as you are attracted to them. This means that a marriage partner should be a true friend, and an intimate companion. If there is no intimacy between you and you are not attracted to each other romantically.

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