Can I Apologise with a Gift?

Samuel came home drunk and battered his wife when she delayed serving his meal. The following morning, she never talked to him as he left for work, but when he came back from work, he gave her a bunch of flowers which she threw in his face. The main question is, can you apologize with the presentation of a fitting gift?

Why apologize?
Upon looking at some factors that lead to apologies, it is very clear that deep emotions are involved. An apology comes in to mend an emotional wound that has been caused, and thus even the remedy should be related to that. If you insulted someone and then you bring the best packed lunch for them, what message are you sending? It is like congratulating them for receiving the insults! That is why you need to focus on the reason behind your apology. It is meant to resolve emotional matters, not to supplement some material cravings!


When should A gift be presented?
The right time to present your gift is monitored by the circumstances surrounding the problem. But, generally, never attempt to wash down the value of sorry with an expensive gift. The earlier mentioned Sam, came to learn about that fact the hard way and at a wrong time. If you need to apologize to your woman, just go ahead and do so. Then you can present your gift. But if you are looking for a chance to apologize for the wrong committed, then use the gift as a mouth-opener. It should pave way for your partner to give you a change to speak the sorry from your heart.

Can I apologize with a gift?
From the foregoing, the answer to this critical question is a plain yes on condition that you don't substitute an apology with a gift. You also need to figure out the best timing and the most appropriate gift for your partner. Otherwise, apologizing with a gift requires your wisdom, maturing and sensibleness to be effective.  

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