Is it Always Wrong to have Sex Before Marriage?


Wendy was in a relationship when her boyfriend started demanding for sex persistently. Her mother had told her never to open up to any man before marriage. But when she consulted her friends, they were even shocked that she was still a virgin at 21 and they encouraged her to go ahead. We will come back to the story later. Modern society has come to accept that when two people truly love each other, sex is acceptable even before getting married.

Who is telling the truth?
Your friends and certain elders will tell you that you can only show your man how much you love him by sleeping with him. But people who have brought you up - mum and dad - will be of the view that you wait for your marriage mate. Who is telling the truth? Firstly, you may need to ask it this way, "Whose word would you trust between your parents' and friends'?" Our friends are filled with the youthful passion and they are too inexperienced to be trusted. In fact, the majority of them will tell you to follow your heart. Not knowing that the heart is the source of serious deceptions. In some cases, you can even see the kind of lives some of your friends lead as a result of ignoring certain rules. Naturally, the parents and mature members of society who want the best for us mean well when they advise that we wait.

But what if you don't want to lose your lover?

If a relationship is broken because you have refused to engage in premarital sex, then you are blessed. You have the best ahead of you. The lady mentioned at the beginning of this article refused to sleep with her man, and she had to endure the agony of watching him walk away just like that! But later she discovered a chain of girls that had been used by the same man in almost the same way.
You can never justify the end by the means. Premarital sex is mere abuse that robs you of the privilege to go into a marriage as clean as intended. But since you can never put your hands over a fire and expect to get away without being singed, there are also consequences that you have to keep up with if you take such a route. Some have ended up with unwanted pregnancies, STDs and STIs, a troubled conscience and a loss trust and respect in society. Therefore, never be misled, A person who will love you till you die cannot fail to wait for a few months or years. And that is why, sex before marriage has never been right. Many have looked around for excuses to justify their actions, but that has only led to serious heart breaks.

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