Real Relationship Issues Today

Perhaps you have already decided to have two children. But some family and friends are suggesting that you need at least four, while others are also saying that you should just remain childless. Why do people decide to have children? What factors influence the number of children a couple should have? What is the right number of children for almost any couple?  Why have children, anyway? One of the commonest reasons why some couples decide to have children is to ensure that their family name lives on long after they are gone. Others also fathom the very idea of having a biological product of their own. The idea of having someone who calls you 'mum' or 'dad' is yet another small but powerful reason why some couples are motivated to have children.  On the other hand, there are cultures around the globe that have adopted the practice of associating every marriage with children. Therefore, when a couple gets married, the clock starts ticking. The society around th...

For many years, she has been like a sister to you. But recently, you have developed feelings which can't be helped anymore. Whenever you see her, you almost want to hug her passionately. Even her voice causes your hair to stand, and with dilated eyes. What next? Those feelings won't just go away. No. should you act on them especially if you've noticed some positive indicators from her? The ugly realities at hand First, it is important to acknowledge the problem. You have started developing feeling for your best friend's wife. In  reality those feelings are no more than some misplaced crush! But that woman belongs to your best friend. Since this person is close to you, it is not easy to avoid her completely. But if you decide to start an affair with her, you can be sure that your best friend will hate you with a passion and don't be shocked when he also acts upon his hatred! If you don't do anything, the feelings will also just continue torturing you inside...

"When I was a little girl, one teacher jokingly called me a relationship-free first lady. My classmates had nicknamed me, Madam ugly." Relates one lady in her mid thirties. She was sure that no man would ever fall for her. But time has taught her how wrong she was. What role does beauty play in a relationship? Is it true that if you are ugly, you will never enjoy a lasting relationship? The role of beauty in a relationship If you are beautiful or handsome, many people will be attracted to your looks. In relationships, beauty acts as a motivator or starting point. It announces your presence and can give you the confidence to stand in public. Some people also prefer attractive mates so that they can also end up producing cute offspring. In addition, physical beauty normally has a way of attracting even the attention of busy people in certain occasions. But, does beauty make it easier to find a serious life partner?  Does Beauty make it easier to get married?  As earlie...

On their engagement day, Joseph bought a very expensive car for his fiance. The following day, his best friend also went and bought two of the same expensive cars for his wife! Was this expense really necessary? Is competition always wrong? When can competition end up going too far? What is the balanced view of competition in relationships and marriages? Is Competition always wrong in relationships? Competition, when used to focus on improvement, can produce excellent results. Generally, it has been used to boost performance and improve quality effectively. Therefore, instead of wasting time watching what your neighbor is buying his woman, why not focus on what you can learn from that act. The right type of competition in relationships involves viewing certain couples as models in a particular area. This is not with the view to end up doing the same, but with the view of making your relationship better. If, for instance, your friend has received a car from her fiance, why not just a...

When you have to make a decision about the person you need to marry or you have complications in your married life, you may need some help. What situations may require some advice in your relationship? When should you consult others about relationship issues troubling you? What should be your mindset as you make consultations?  Situations that require advice A word spoken at the right time to a troubled soul can save lives. When a relationship is about to start that is usually the time you have the ability to make a lot changes that lay the foundation. In fact, it is considered to be a critical consulting time when you need to find out all the details about your lover which will have an effect on your relationship in future and your life in particular.  After the relationship has started, you can consult whenever you feel that you are about to make an important decision. This is not to mean that you are going to allow others to determine what you need. No. It is just an op...

Whenever you crack a joke your woman either pretends to be smiling or laughs because others seem to be laughing. Otherwise, she never laughs at your jokes however funny others might find them. Why? What can you do to correct the situation? Why she never laughs at your jokes There are many reasons that cause a woman not to laugh at the jokes of her man. Some of the commonest reasons might include the following; Awkward sense of humor: Your jokes might be embarrassing for her taste and she is not sure yet how to tell you. Perhaps she finds them too queer or outrageous - to some extent, even childish. Wrong timing: It might be that you always crack your jokes when she is not in the mood for jokes. Serious issues unresolved: Even if you crack the best jokes ever, your woman won't find them funny if there are unresolved issues. Your jokes aren't good enough: You woman is just in the category of people who don't find your jokes funny. To her, they are dry and perha...

When planning a wedding, there are many factors you have to deal with. Most of the wedding complications that cause embarrassment can be avoided during planning. There are many mistakes to avoid when planning a wedding so that everything else can work out smoothly. The anxiety, pressure, and emotions you have to handle are all part of the burden you have to deal with in the process. But below are some common regrettable mistakes common during wedding parties and even wedding ceremonies.  Common mistakes made during weddings These mistakes are wide and they are not just centered on the wedding day. The capture mistakes that should have been avoided when planning for the wedding.  Extravagant expenditure: Some couples spent to impress or show off in style. There is nothing wrong with making the best of that day. But many fail to stick to their financial boundaries and incur heavy debt or even end up in a debt trap. Inviting multitudes of guests: The pressure to invite as many...

Wedding ceremonies can be quite involving to organize. The headache begins right after she says 'yes' to the proposal. This planning process can be made a lot easier and happier if some factors are handled with care right from the start. Do not postpone preparations - Start Now! Unfortunately, with wedding preparations, there is no too much time ahead. Even up to the day you are getting married there will still be a list of things to do. Therefore, it is best to start preparing right now.  Make a checklist for the two of you right away and constantly update it. What type of wedding do you need? The starting point should be an agreement of the kind of wedding you want as a couple and the expectations that your families have, even before you specify a date. Then, you can strike a balance. But never start these preparations with the view of impressing someone. You will have a taste of daydreaming that leads to real nightmares!   What do you w...