Real Relationship Issues Today

You can help a man who is attracted to you, to make a step not merely by showing off the curves around your body as you put on some revealing attire; or putting on a mini-skirt that nearly exposes your underwear – indecent exposure. Add real value to your body language . Value addition to your character When you expose your body in order to attract men, you merely invite lust-crazed men to come after you. The value addition to your body language should focus on bettering your character with qualities like humility, self control and wisdom. As you work hard to clear your weaknesses in these areas, a serious man will appreciate the quality you possess and take you for life. Such men are easily put off when they see women who go about showing their bodies like sex-passion display objects. When You Expose Your Body, You Only Attract Flies Which Are Not Easy To Chase Away When you adopt a certain type of attire, you may not even know what it is associated with. All you may u...

Y ou are already engaged to this person. But you are also having several intimate virtual friends on facebook; and you are already about to give in to a secret admirer who has been following you around. The last time you met, things went too far and you are sure this trend is likely to continue for some time. Can you correct matters and stop cheating on your mate ? Make The First Decisive step With Social Networks Social networking is a problem when it comes to multiple partners – especially if you have hundreds upon thousands of friends. Take your first step by cutting your links with unnecessary friends who are ever putting you at risk – especially those of the opposite gender. Control the quality of friends that you have on social networks like facebook, and do not leave this matter to chance. Otherwise, you will even see the insanity and indecency some of them can easily post. It is better to have a small number of quality online friends than amass crazy ones who might cause y...

When listing the qualities of the partner you want, one of the critical factors featured is education. Most men prefer women who are educated enough. Not too educated to beat them by far. A good number of Women also prefer men who are more educated than them. In reality this kind of thinking is tested by the realities that couple goes through. Why Is Education Needed? Firstly, a partner who has the basic education which enables him to read and write will be able to understand instructions, warnings and other communication that is vital for keeping the family safe. In addition, a partner who is educated commands respect from society by virtue of his/her status. In fact, most partners look at it in terms of sustenance. the educated mate can get a job or start up something of his own easily, as compared to one who has never been to school. Therefore, education is important in a relationship. How Should Education Be treated In Your Relationship? Education does not guarantee t...

It is possible to end a relationship without breaking your hearts . Many have done it and you can do it if that is the right way to go. Unmistakable Signs Of A Possible Breakup Remember, a relationship should eventually lead to marriage. Therefore, if you are dating someone whose qualities leave more questions than answers, then you reconsider your relationship. In some relationships, you may find that you fight many times without pointing to a tangible reason for such. If you have both tried your best to resolve the situation and nothing is getting resolved, and you seem to have too many problems with each other, then you need to decide on your own that the relationship should actually end. But even if you had a bad relationship, just break the relationship not someone’s heart.    How To Prepare For A successful breakup If you are sure this is the right course to take, it is about time you started getting ready for a breakup . Arrange for a time when the two of you ...

She comes close to you while you immediately hold your breath avoiding the choking air coming from her mouth as she speaks. But she is not aware, so she continues learning closer to you in her usual romantic way as she speaks. You have been waiting for the right opportunity to tell her, but it doesn’t seem to be coming. This article can even be applied to men with similar issues. Where Do You Start From? Telling your girl about this problem can not just be done abruptly. You need to be very tactful yet honest, considerate, helpful and loving. Is this the time you need to buy her a present? When she hears about her bad breath, she is likely to toss it in your face. Prepare her mind psychologically, by asking for forgiveness in advance; and reminding her that what you are going to say is going to hurt. Do not keep her anticipating. Say it in as polite and loving a tone as you can – basing on the way you know her. Ask her if anyone has ever mentioned it to her? Whatever the reaction...

In many cultures marrying a woman who already has a child has been viewed as a serious anomaly, even taboo. This is because some people who have married partners who already had children have gone through some difficulties. On the other hand, such relationships have also worked successfully. What difficulties should you prepare for in such a relationship? How can a marriage with such a background succeed?  The challenges right ahead If you have fallen in love with a partner who already has a child from some past relationship, you can to be sure that there are some challenges you are yet to face. The list below brings out a number of them: Negative comments from people: Many people, especially those close to you, will call you names for going into such a relationship, and speak negatively against your decision.   Cultural myths and beliefs: In some cultures, such a step can even lead to you being avoided by some relatives and friends because it is taboo. An extra r...

This can be very damaging emotionally because you took that step with the hope of getting a positive result. Perhaps, if you had known, you could have avoided it. One woman almost committed suicide when her man turned down her proposal ! How should such a matter be handled? Prepare For Any Answer The pain of your marriage proposal being turned down is lessened when you prepare for a negative response. You have taken a brave step which might easily make him act without reasoning properly in some cases. If you are mentally prepared, you will find it easier to respect his decision and move on. You can also find solace in knowing that if there is true love between the two of you, your paths will still cross with positive results in your favor as a couple and you will still end up together. Never Blame Yourself Blaming yourself for his decision to reject your proposal is a very torturous way of handling this matter. This leads to severe depression and can even cause you to develop sui...

In the majority of traditions, customs and practices around the world, the answer to the above question is 'No.' It even tallies with the realities ahead because the man will be the head of the home you are starting. But what if the man is shy, reluctant yet sure, naturally timid on serious issues or the woman has just assessed that it is the right time? Should the woman still wait for the man to ask? Why are most women afraid to take up this step? Firstly, the majority of traditions around the world hold the view that the woman who asks directly for a man's hand in marriage is a prostitute, an immoral woman with no values, or simply a sex-maniac pretending to be serious with life. In addition to these factors, most women avoid due to one or more of the following factors: Fear of rejection ; They imagine the pain and anguish that can come if the man refuses. Wrongful assumption of headship ; Some feel that it may portray arrogance and lack of submission to the future ...

You have noticed that you are always talking about each other with pride. When your girlfriend is in pain, you feel the pain too; when someone says something bad about your man, you take it personal. Is this how you feel about your relationship? Are you ready to go take your relationship to another level? Test your relationship If you want to know the status of your relationship, you need to take it through some basic tests. First, find out if you are on the same page with your lover. Sometimes, you may waste your time raising your hopes on someone who merely regards you as a blood relative. Most importantly, look at the way you plan together for your future, seriously. Try to put your mate on the spot and fire them soul-searching questions about the future. You also need to provide answers to the same. If you were to attach a road map to your relationship, where are you today and where are you headed? Is your relationship really ready A relationship that is ready to na...

She bought a golf T-short on his birthday. But to her surprise, he only wore it once. The next time she asked him about it, he had already sold it. She was devastated. Is there a way of convincing your man to like or enjoy your gift? What should you do if your man does not accept your gift? How can you find out the best gift for your man? Can you convince your man to like your gift? Sometimes, men fail to accept gifts because they don't seem to appreciate the benefits, or they have been misguided into wrong perceptions about certain products and items. Therefore, you need to prepare his mind by letting him know the benefits of wearing that T-shirt, or the benefits of using that product. Convincing your man to take up your gift is an art of making him look at that gift from your view point - especially the spirit in which you are doing that. Don't focus too much on the amount of money spent. If it is an outfit, let him know how attractive he looks in your...