The Way Forward After Your Man Turns Down Your Marriage Proposal

This can be very damaging emotionally because you took that step with the hope of getting a positive result. Perhaps, if you had known, you could have avoided it. One woman almost committed suicide when her man turned down her proposal! How should such a matter be handled?
Prepare For Any Answer
The pain of your marriage proposal being turned down is lessened when you prepare for a negative response. You have taken a brave step which might easily make him act without reasoning properly in some cases. If you are mentally prepared, you will find it easier to respect his decision and move on. You can also find solace in knowing that if there is true love between the two of you, your paths will still cross with positive results in your favor as a couple and you will still end up together.
Never Blame Yourself
Blaming yourself for his decision to reject your proposal is a very torturous way of handling this matter. This leads to severe depression and can even cause you to develop suicidal thoughts after developing deep hatred and real abhorrence for yourself. Accept what has happened and view it as an eye opener for handling similar decisions in future. You had nothing to do with his refusal, and he might come around when he realizes the value he has just lost in you.
Be Happy And Open New Chapters
You deserve to be happy. Talk to the people around you who care about your welfare, and who have been close to you for many years. Listen to them as they explain how they managed to get over their deep disappointments in their past. Open new avenues of your personal life by trying out other activities you have never tried before - especially awesome games and literature. Keep the event off your mind by even engaging in regular exercise both for your body and your brain. Why not make use of the tactics you applied when that promising employer turned down your project bid on odesk?
What Next?
The next step is dependent on how he responded to your proposal. Being a woman, you may have your own interpretation of his response. But if he had said your relationship will continue, then, you may have to set matters straight and hear his reasons so that you can reason together the way forward. Otherwise, if that was the end of the relationship, it is time to heal from the wounds of your heartbreak. It may take a long period of time. But since time heals all wounds, you will definitely regain your happiness.

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