Stop Cheating On Your Mate Today

You are already engaged to this person. But you are also having several intimate virtual friends on facebook; and you are already about to give in to a secret admirer who has been following you around. The last time you met, things went too far and you are sure this trend is likely to continue for some time. Can you correct matters and stop cheating on your mate?
Make The First Decisive step With Social Networks
Social networking is a problem when it comes to multiple partners – especially if you have hundreds upon thousands of friends. Take your first step by cutting your links with unnecessary friends who are ever putting you at risk – especially those of the opposite gender. Control the quality of friends that you have on social networks like facebook, and do not leave this matter to chance. Otherwise, you will even see the insanity and indecency some of them can easily post. It is better to have a small number of quality online friends than amass crazy ones who might cause you to cheat on your mate easily. But why not use the general guide facebook employs; If you have never met someone physically, and you can never meet, then it is better to avoid accepting their friend requests.
Sort Out Your Matters
The reason you have been holding on to that partner, is because you have seen quality you can’t afford to lose. Therefore, instead of letting selfishness take the lead, it is time you took the bitter pill by letting anyone, with whom you are having an affair, understand that in any serious relationship cheating is poison. Let that person know that you are in a stable relationship and if they love you, it is best to end the affair ASAP. Most people do not accept this the first time it is given to them. But you can be lest assured that if you are serious about what you said, they will learn to respect your stance with time.
The key area
Put yourself in the shoes of the mate you are cheating on. How would you react if you discovered that they were having an affair behind your back? Would you be happy to support them to go ahead? When you look at this matter from that perspective, you will expediently act out of love to stop cheating on your mate. You will even be motivated to act out of love and save your relationship. Otherwise, if you continue, then you are preparing for a future divorce which will be slow and painful for both of you as a couple.

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