Ending A Relationship Without Causing A Heartbreak


It is possible to end a relationship without breaking your hearts. Many have done it and you can do it if that is the right way to go.
Unmistakable Signs Of A Possible Breakup
Remember, a relationship should eventually lead to marriage. Therefore, if you are dating someone whose qualities leave more questions than answers, then you reconsider your relationship. In some relationships, you may find that you fight many times without pointing to a tangible reason for such. If you have both tried your best to resolve the situation and nothing is getting resolved, and you seem to have too many problems with each other, then you need to decide on your own that the relationship should actually end. But even if you had a bad relationship, just break the relationship not someone’s heart.  
How To Prepare For A successful breakup
If you are sure this is the right course to take, it is about time you started getting ready for a breakup. Arrange for a time when the two of you can talk things out maturely. Don’t send an e-mail filled with profanity hoping to provoke your mate into ending it ASAP. You may start a fire you won’t easily quench. The breakup starts with your mental status. Be determined to do what is right and avoid pretending. Cut down on the displays of affection you have had in the past. Limit the frequency and intimacy of your communication. All these measures should only be a temporal mechanism as you await the actual day when you are going to break the news – but you should have booked an appointment by now. The more you delay, the more difficult it becomes for your mate to avoid going away with a heartbreak.
Hit The Nail On The Head Without Bruising Anyone’s Finger
When the actual day comes for you to break the news, do not spend hours discussing Android Tablets or your favorite facebook pages. You can start with a different discussion, but it should only take a very short period of time. Then get started by explaining the problems you have seen in the past in your relationship; the many failed attempts you have tried to resolve matters; and include any serious matters you feel should be sorted out by parting. Then announce in a calm and polite, yet firm, tone that with all the surrounding factors, it is best for the two of you to go separate ways. Let your partner know that you had taken time to analyze and that is the conclusion you reached. Hitting the nail on the head also means that you avoid using words that are demeaning and heartbreaking. Otherwise, you will end up bruising your fingers in the process.
Handle The After Math Of A Breakup
The aftermath of a break up is very important. You need to be prepared for it. But remember to avoid being too dramatic about it. Keep your word, and do not include any actions that may be perceived otherwise. If you are serious about your break up, you cannot offer to be friends immediately. But you can offer to remain a mere brother or sister from now on. That might send the right message and stay by it. If you announce that you are ready to be friends afterward, then you are still contemplating a reunion and you should not have broken up in the first place.

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